Academy
Becoming Her
Becoming the woman healthy relationships require.
At Becoming Her, we focus on one thing: becoming the woman healthy relationships require—emotionally grounded, self-aware, and prepared to love well.
Becoming Her is a transformative community for women committed
to personal growth and healthier relationships. Whether single,
dating, engaged, married, or healing, this space equips women with
the emotional intelligence, self-awareness, and relationship skills
needed to build strong, secure, and fulfilling connections—starting
from within.
It's time for you to be unapologetically YOU!
Becoming Her is a growth-focused learning community for women
who want to improve how they show up in relationships. Inside, we
focus on emotional regulation, attachment awareness,
communication, boundaries, values, and healing relational patterns
that block connection.
This community is not about rushing into labels or roles—it’s about
becoming emotionally healthy, relationally skilled, and self-aware.
Women who desire marriage will find themselves better prepared for
it. Women focused on personal development will gain tools that
strengthen every relationship in their lives.
I CAN GIVE YOU the clarity and confidence to be the woman of favor God called you to be and find the partner that is designed perfectly for you!
Transform your heart, your mind, and ultimately your life!
The relationship that you dream of IS POSSIBLE for you!
The Becoming Her Academy is a transformational learning and community space for women who are committed to growing into emotionally healthy, relationally wise, and self-aware women.
At the core of the Academy are two signature programs that define our work and guide your journey:
Wives in Waiting Masterclass
The Wives in Waiting Masterclass is designed for women who desire marriage and want to prepare for it intentionally—not based on fantasy, culture, or pressure, but on emotional maturity and real-life readiness.
This program focuses on developing the mindset, character, discipline, and relational skills needed to sustain a healthy marriage. You will learn how to transition from simply wanting marriage to becoming the woman who is prepared to thrive in it.
Vetting From Your Values
Vetting From Your Values teaches you how to choose relationships with clarity, wisdom, and confidence.
Instead of relying on chemistry, hope, or potential, you will learn how to define your values, recognize red flags early, assess character and consistency, and make decisions that protect your heart, time, and future. This program empowers you to stop auditioning for relationships and start discerning them.
Academy
Becoming Her
Becoming the woman healthy relationships require.
ENROLL NOW
Inside the Academy
Wives in Waiting changed the way I showed up in relationships before I ever walked down the aisle. I didn’t just learn what to look for—I learned who I needed to become. I’m now celebrating my second year of marriage, and we are still going strong because I entered marriage emotionally prepared, self-aware, and grounded. This community gave me tools I still use daily.”
— A.J., Married, 2 Years
“This community gave me language for things I always felt but couldn’t explain. I’m dating differently now—no rushing, no ignoring red flags, no shrinking myself. I’m more confident, emotionally regulated, and clear about what I bring to the table. Becoming Her feels like the support system I didn’t know I needed.”
— N.W., Single
“What makes Becoming Her different is the community. It’s supportive, honest, and growth-focused. No judgment. No competition. Just women doing the work together. I’ve learned as much from the conversations as I have from the courses. Being here feels necessary for the woman I’m becoming.”
— C.H.